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Code of Conduct
The Club asks each of its players to sign a formal Code of Conduct before the beginning of each season. The Club also has expectations of its Parent Members. The guidelines are as follows:
1. Conduct at games. It is NEVER acceptable to make disparaging remarks about anyone involved in the game – whether referees, or coaches and players from your own or the other team. The old adage applies, “If you can’t say something good, don’t say anything at all.”
2. On the other hand, words of encouragement are always welcome. We pride ourselves on being a positive influence. Keep in mind, that at most games, the referees are evaluating the conduct of the players, coaches, and the sidelines. Scores are given, and NYSA tracks these scores and gives out an annual “Report Card.” We are shooting for an “Outstanding” grade!
3. If you and your child have a concern about his/her playing time, position, etc…. the first point of contact is ALWAYS for the player to go directly to the Team Coach. Regardless of the ages of the players, they need to learn how to speak for themselves.
4. If the matter is still not resolved, you may contact the Team Coach, but only on matters regarding your own child. We also request that you choose an appropriate time and place for talking to the coach, not on the field immediately before or after a game or practice. Our coaches are highly-prized assets. Please treat them with courtesy and respect at all times and encourage your child to do the same!
All other concerns regarding the team, the coach, or the Club, should be directed to your Team Representative. If you are uncomfortable talking to that person, you may contact the VP of Teams. We value your input and encourage you to make the appropriate contact when you have a concern.
We ask that you let your children, their teammates and their coaches form a bond. That bond is undermined when parents criticize and second guess the coach in front of their children, or criticize the play of other members of the team. Again, words of encouragement go a long way. Please keep any negative thoughts to yourself, or go through the channels spelled out above.
Our Club prides itself on being a “family”. Whenever you have the time and opportunity, we encourage you to observe and support other Club teams.
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